I quit talking guns with my wife & her family. Not interested. When crime went up in my area I signed her up for a women's only new shooter class. And her sister. Took them to the range a few times & they tried a dozen different guns. Then they lost interest but years later incidents happened with her sister so they went to another new shooter class to relearn what they forgot. Took them to the range again 4 times. Soon they lost interest again. Political tension rose last November so 2 other sisters & a niece wanted to learn to shoot. Briefly. Then they all lost interest. I can't even mention anything gun related around the house or my head gets bit off. I did manage to buy her a can of pepper spray. She & her 5 sisters are driving out of state for 2 weeks. 2,500 miles. Unarmed. Because being armed scares them more than being killed. Can't change a tire or check fluids but they have smart phones. The world is way more dangerous than 50 years ago. Some adapt, some don't. Of all the victims of crime, how many woke up that morning expecting to be attacked? Probably under 5%. This is why I always carry. Oh, another niece did get her carry license & a gun! One night a man pulled her out of her car, tried to pin her to the ground & ripped off most of her cloths. She fought him off & got away. The next day she bought a gun & goes to the range all the time.