In the 9mm Parabellum, the difference would be negligible. Auto pistols handle recoil differently than revolvers, and recoil is in a much more narrow range than in revolvers.
In my .45 Colt cartridges, I have shot 185 gr. JHP and 350 gr. cast bullets, and the heavier bullets generate far more recoil energy than the lighter ones. And recoil puts a great amount of stress on a revolver's top strap. I tell you this from experience, having stretched the frame of a Colt SAA.
But in 9mm, its no worry.