IMHO a small double action only (no exposed hammer) revolver would be the perfect gun for an inexperienced male or female for self-defense (concealed carry or at home). Revolvers are simple, almost foolproof in operation and safe, lightweight (recoil wouldn't be a big factor because it won't be used for plinking only "carrying a lot and shooting a little", .38 cal. is plenty for an "oh s**t" gun that is used at a range of no more than 15 ft. (especially with the new specifically designed ammo for that caliber), you can practice with cheap low recoil ammo, and best of all, you can get a high quality snubby for less than $400. And they are soooo.. easy to carry. Just my $.02.

