Originally Posted by
Bisley
I think you have correctly assessed that the real question is, "is .380 an adequate self-defense round?" It is definitely hovering near the borderline, and there are lots of different opinions on the subject (most of them uninformed).
There is a wide assortment of decent guns in .380, some of them of a size and weight to make them suitable for pocket carry. I personally think that 9mm is really about the smallest acceptable CCW, yet I do often settle for carrying an LCP, rather than not being able to carry anything at all.
A well placed shot (or, preferably, several well placed shots) with a 9mm, .40, .357, or .45 has a decent chance to stop the 'average' attacker, or at least distract him enough so you can run away. They are less affected by his size or whether he has heavy clothing, etc. Guns of these calibers are also usually built on a more user-friendly platform, meaning that it is usually a little easier to actually hit where you aim.
The .380 falls into that 'iffy' category of rounds that will probably work, if fired accurately, if the attacker isn't unusually large and strong, wearing a heavy coat, or on drugs, or any of several other factors. The effectiveness of the .380 improves a little, when fired out of a longer barrel, or a more stable platform that promotes better accuracy, but if you go up very much in size, you might as well have a 9mm.
My advice is to plan on buying at least two guns for carry. The first one should be of sufficient size and quality that you will want to go practice with it a lot. There is absolutely no substitute for marksmanship, when you are considering how to have the best CCW equipment. When you are confident with it, and have burned lots of good habits into your brain, get a good, cheap pocket gun, and start all over trying to learn to hit something with it...then don't carry it unless you just can't carry the other one. You likely will not want to practice very much with the pocket gun.
Just my opinion.