This is no way intended to sound rude, but I suggest you scroll through the New To Handguns section first and read the posts there. You should get a lot of good information and help you narrow down your choices or get a better idea of what you are looking for. Once you do that, hit us up with specific questions. Right now, you're just setting yourself up to get a bunch of brand and caliber biased suggestions, for example, "I have a Sig/Glock/XD/M&P, they're great, you should get one too.", which isn't really helping you out.