Hello and welcome to the forum...
I've got pretty small hands as well and own 2 Beretta's, The 92FS and Cougar 8000F. I'm comfortable with both as far as shooting and comfort, but for CCW I've got to use the Cougar...for now. The 92FS is just a tad to big for my body frame. Of course, I'm still carrying it, but only when I'm wearing a coat. I'm hoping the Cougar will be a little easier to conceal, I'm waiting for a Holster that I ordered for it to come in, so we'll see.
I'm also considering a Beretta Tomcat. It's smaller and should be much easier to conceal when it gets warmer outside.
Check out this discussion link:
There's a couple of forum members who have the Beretta Tomcat and have commented on them.
Hope this helps
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